Comments on: Video Game Addiction http://www.terminally-incoherent.com/blog/2007/11/12/video-game-addiction/ Utterly random, incoherent and disjointed rants and ramblings... Wed, 03 Dec 2008 04:01:51 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.0.5 by: vincent http://www.terminally-incoherent.com/blog/2007/11/12/video-game-addiction/#comment-10575 Mon, 03 Nov 2008 05:30:36 +0000 http://www.terminally-incoherent.com/blog/2007/11/12/video-game-addiction/#comment-10575 parents should provide a selection of activities, not just the ones that have the most action or are addictive. Choose some that involve problem solving or good story lines. Also aim for a balance in your child's life. Sports are important, reading's important. Just think of computer games as one more component in a child's exploration of what's out there in society. ========================================= Vincent <a href="“http://www.localdrugrehab.com”" rel="nofollow">Drug Rehab</a> parents should provide a selection of activities, not just the ones that have the most action or are addictive. Choose some that involve problem solving or good story lines. Also aim for a balance in your child’s life. Sports are important, reading’s important. Just think of computer games as one more component in a child’s exploration of what’s out there in society.
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]]> by: Luke Maciak http://www.terminally-incoherent.com/blog/2007/11/12/video-game-addiction/#comment-10531 Thu, 30 Oct 2008 06:50:51 +0000 http://www.terminally-incoherent.com/blog/2007/11/12/video-game-addiction/#comment-10531 @<a href="#comment-10530" rel="nofollow">macanze</a>: I am not a psychologist, but I'd suspect that such behavior is a symptom of deeper underlying problems. If you are being "jilted for a video game" perhaps this is an indication of a less than healthy relationship. It's easy to blame marital problems on video games, but I suspect that these problems start elsewhere and in most cases both parties are at fault. In a situation you described I'd really recommend to seek marriage counseling rather than treatment for video game addiction. Also, people who never played a MMO do not realize how annoying can it be to have to step away from a computer in the middle of a difficult instance run or a raid. Yes it is just a game, but on the other hand you are playing with other people who rely on you to be there in order to accomplish the mission. If you have to step away your fellow players get annoyed, and you end up looking like an ass for leaving them hanging. This is why people get angry when they get interrupted. I wouldn't rudely interrupt your phone call in the middle of an interesting conversation or a story. I wouldn't interrupt your IM conversation or a chat. But interrupting a game is fine apparently. The whole video game addiction is FUD and quackery IMHO. @macanze: I am not a psychologist, but I’d suspect that such behavior is a symptom of deeper underlying problems. If you are being “jilted for a video game” perhaps this is an indication of a less than healthy relationship. It’s easy to blame marital problems on video games, but I suspect that these problems start elsewhere and in most cases both parties are at fault.

In a situation you described I’d really recommend to seek marriage counseling rather than treatment for video game addiction.

Also, people who never played a MMO do not realize how annoying can it be to have to step away from a computer in the middle of a difficult instance run or a raid. Yes it is just a game, but on the other hand you are playing with other people who rely on you to be there in order to accomplish the mission. If you have to step away your fellow players get annoyed, and you end up looking like an ass for leaving them hanging. This is why people get angry when they get interrupted. I wouldn’t rudely interrupt your phone call in the middle of an interesting conversation or a story. I wouldn’t interrupt your IM conversation or a chat. But interrupting a game is fine apparently.

The whole video game addiction is FUD and quackery IMHO.

]]> by: macanze http://www.terminally-incoherent.com/blog/2007/11/12/video-game-addiction/#comment-10530 Thu, 30 Oct 2008 06:09:44 +0000 http://www.terminally-incoherent.com/blog/2007/11/12/video-game-addiction/#comment-10530 With the holidays just around the corner, many people are relishing the thought of relaxing at home, munching all manner of fatty sweets and spending extra time with their ... computer games. Instead of slurping hot cocoa with loved ones, the gamers will be off by themselves in darkened rooms, slaying monsters, conquering new worlds and otherwise stroking their heroic alter egos. That behavior bothers a lot of people. It's not fun being jilted for a computer game, especially during a season that's supposed to be about human love, harmony and all those other warm and fuzzy notions. And while hard-core gamers insist their favorite activity is a harmless pastime, their loved ones sometimes suspect that their hobby has turned into something a little more compulsive, which raises the question: Is there such a thing as gaming addiction or is the very concept a crock of excrement? It depends on whom you ask. At one extreme, there are gamers who threaten to "get medieval" if someone so much as suggests they step away from their computer for a butt break. At the other extreme, there are the neglected spouses, former gamers and a bevy of therapists dedicated to treating game junkies. ----------------------- macanze <a>Drug Rehabilitation Programs</a> With the holidays just around the corner, many people are relishing the thought of relaxing at home, munching all manner of fatty sweets and spending extra time with their … computer games.

Instead of slurping hot cocoa with loved ones, the gamers will be off by themselves in darkened rooms, slaying monsters, conquering new worlds and otherwise stroking their heroic alter egos.

That behavior bothers a lot of people. It’s not fun being jilted for a computer game, especially during a season that’s supposed to be about human love, harmony and all those other warm and fuzzy notions.

And while hard-core gamers insist their favorite activity is a harmless pastime, their loved ones sometimes suspect that their hobby has turned into something a little more compulsive, which raises the question: Is there such a thing as gaming addiction or is the very concept a crock of excrement?

It depends on whom you ask. At one extreme, there are gamers who threaten to “get medieval” if someone so much as suggests they step away from their computer for a butt break. At the other extreme, there are the neglected spouses, former gamers and a bevy of therapists dedicated to treating game junkies.
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macanze
Drug Rehabilitation Programs

]]> by: Teague http://www.terminally-incoherent.com/blog/2007/11/12/video-game-addiction/#comment-7852 Fri, 25 Jan 2008 04:22:24 +0000 http://www.terminally-incoherent.com/blog/2007/11/12/video-game-addiction/#comment-7852 It's been awhile, but I just came across this: http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/technology/4183340.stm It’s been awhile, but I just came across this:

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/technology/4183340.stm

]]> by: Luke Maciak http://www.terminally-incoherent.com/blog/2007/11/12/video-game-addiction/#comment-7037 Mon, 19 Nov 2007 16:12:06 +0000 http://www.terminally-incoherent.com/blog/2007/11/12/video-game-addiction/#comment-7037 <strong>@Zack</strong> - thanks for sharing. I think you've actually touched on something important here. For some people their favorite MMO is pretty much the only social outlet where they don't feel like a dork or an outcast. For example, a kid may be unpopular or even bullied at school, but when he is playing WoW he is a well respected, or even feared guild leader. I mean, why would anyone be surprised that anyone in that situation plays the game obsessively. So it's not the game, and it's not always some psychological issue. Sometimes it can be the environment that drives people to play more than you'd think is appropriate. <strong>@Alphast</strong> - yeah, but I think the only people who actually believed int the crap about RPG being addictive, and making you lose touch with reality were people like <a href="http://www.chick.com/reading/tracts/0046/0046_01.asp" rel="nofollow">Jack Chick</a> or the people who made <a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0084314/" rel="nofollow">Mazes and Monsters</a> movie (btw, if you want to see the lowest point of Tom Hank's career, this is the movie to see lol). I don't think anyone in the hobby ever threated these things seriously. Video game addiction on the other hand seems to be considered plausible even in the gamer circles. Just the other day I saw some vlog where they interviewed bunch of people at Blizcon about gaming addiction and not a single person in the clip rolled their eyes and said it's BS. Most people were like "huh huh, you are asking the wrong person" or "well, I don't personally know anyone who was addicted to the game but if I saw my friend or guild-mate playing way to much I'd probably say something." So people are actually buying into it, and believe that they could actually one day completely lose control. @Zack - thanks for sharing. I think you’ve actually touched on something important here. For some people their favorite MMO is pretty much the only social outlet where they don’t feel like a dork or an outcast. For example, a kid may be unpopular or even bullied at school, but when he is playing WoW he is a well respected, or even feared guild leader.

I mean, why would anyone be surprised that anyone in that situation plays the game obsessively. So it’s not the game, and it’s not always some psychological issue. Sometimes it can be the environment that drives people to play more than you’d think is appropriate.

@Alphast - yeah, but I think the only people who actually believed int the crap about RPG being addictive, and making you lose touch with reality were people like Jack Chick or the people who made Mazes and Monsters movie (btw, if you want to see the lowest point of Tom Hank’s career, this is the movie to see lol). I don’t think anyone in the hobby ever threated these things seriously.

Video game addiction on the other hand seems to be considered plausible even in the gamer circles. Just the other day I saw some vlog where they interviewed bunch of people at Blizcon about gaming addiction and not a single person in the clip rolled their eyes and said it’s BS.

Most people were like “huh huh, you are asking the wrong person” or “well, I don’t personally know anyone who was addicted to the game but if I saw my friend or guild-mate playing way to much I’d probably say something.” So people are actually buying into it, and believe that they could actually one day completely lose control.

]]> by: Alphast http://www.terminally-incoherent.com/blog/2007/11/12/video-game-addiction/#comment-7035 Mon, 19 Nov 2007 09:59:00 +0000 http://www.terminally-incoherent.com/blog/2007/11/12/video-game-addiction/#comment-7035 It is the same old fake shrink crap that has been trashed out at role playing game before (I mean real paper rpg's, not the lame computer versions). It is just to make parents feel better about the fact that they are unable to help their kids grow up. It is the same old fake shrink crap that has been trashed out at role playing game before (I mean real paper rpg’s, not the lame computer versions). It is just to make parents feel better about the fact that they are unable to help their kids grow up.

]]> by: Zack http://www.terminally-incoherent.com/blog/2007/11/12/video-game-addiction/#comment-6954 Tue, 13 Nov 2007 01:16:29 +0000 http://www.terminally-incoherent.com/blog/2007/11/12/video-game-addiction/#comment-6954 I would agree with you on this one. I had a period of about a year while in college that I was hit with some pretty bad depression. In that time I became "addicted" to counter-strike. I played it like 8 hours a day. Sometimes more. It took one of my friends to tell me parents about it to get me to realize wtf I was doing. Looking back at it, it wasn't video game addiction, but it was the only thing that gave me a piece of happiness. Video game addiction is crap, it boils down to underlying issues, at least IMO. I would agree with you on this one. I had a period of about a year while in college that I was hit with some pretty bad depression. In that time I became “addicted” to counter-strike. I played it like 8 hours a day. Sometimes more. It took one of my friends to tell me parents about it to get me to realize wtf I was doing. Looking back at it, it wasn’t video game addiction, but it was the only thing that gave me a piece of happiness. Video game addiction is crap, it boils down to underlying issues, at least IMO.

]]> by: Luke Maciak http://www.terminally-incoherent.com/blog/2007/11/12/video-game-addiction/#comment-6951 Mon, 12 Nov 2007 21:35:05 +0000 http://www.terminally-incoherent.com/blog/2007/11/12/video-game-addiction/#comment-6951 <strong>@jambarama</strong> - very good point. People use this to justify their lack of motivation and ambition. To lazy to get out of the basement and find a job? Claim you're addicted to WoW and you can't stop playing. This way people will feel bad for you and let you mooch off of them - and if they give you crap about not working or playing to much, you can sell them a sappy story about struggling with addiction. <strong>@Teague</strong> - obsession is bit different from addiction. ;) @jambarama - very good point.

People use this to justify their lack of motivation and ambition. To lazy to get out of the basement and find a job? Claim you’re addicted to WoW and you can’t stop playing. This way people will feel bad for you and let you mooch off of them - and if they give you crap about not working or playing to much, you can sell them a sappy story about struggling with addiction.

@Teague - obsession is bit different from addiction. )

]]> by: Teague http://www.terminally-incoherent.com/blog/2007/11/12/video-game-addiction/#comment-6950 Mon, 12 Nov 2007 21:04:05 +0000 http://www.terminally-incoherent.com/blog/2007/11/12/video-game-addiction/#comment-6950 I would write my opinion of this issue, but I need to get back to X-Com. It callssss usss. I would write my opinion of this issue, but I need to get back to X-Com. It callssss usss.

]]> by: jambarama http://www.terminally-incoherent.com/blog/2007/11/12/video-game-addiction/#comment-6949 Mon, 12 Nov 2007 20:41:53 +0000 http://www.terminally-incoherent.com/blog/2007/11/12/video-game-addiction/#comment-6949 I think a lot of this goes to our societies growing habit of blaming someone else for our problems. If you don't have enough self control to stop playing video games, claim you're addicted. There is a big difference between habits (especially enjoyable habits) and addictions. I think a lot of this goes to our societies growing habit of blaming someone else for our problems. If you don’t have enough self control to stop playing video games, claim you’re addicted. There is a big difference between habits (especially enjoyable habits) and addictions.

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