Fucking this right here. I used to play in an MMO and hated getting interrupted during group activities where my presence was needed.

This is just the result of adults not understanding that kids bury themselves into things because of trouble at home, trouble with their life, etc.

It’s also the Finger of Blame. I agree %100.

Well, 1:26 explains it all:

Peter says his gaming turned into obsession at age 12, the same year his parents were divorced.

Mom choose career over her children. She abandoned 2 kids (ages 12 and below) because “she wanted to go back to school”. Now she is wondering why her son is fucked up. Perhaps it’s because you decided to wreck the family, and ruin his childhood because your fucking mid-life crisis bullshit. Eh…

The kid probably just wanted attention – both from mom, and from that blond tease (aka “his best friend”).

Forgot to add source: http://kotaku.com/5120438/video-game-addict-is-a-real-sad-case

Saw this video on youtube and immediately reminded me of this post of yours.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a79_-ZdKrow

My first reaction: :?

EPIC FAIL! :P

It is so freaking obvious that no one understood what his real problems are.

parents should provide a selection of activities, not just the ones that have the most action or are addictive. Choose some that involve problem solving or good story lines. Also aim for a balance in your child’s life. Sports are important, reading’s important. Just think of computer games as one more component in a child’s exploration of what’s out there in society.
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Vincent
Drug Rehab

@macanze: I am not a psychologist, but I’d suspect that such behavior is a symptom of deeper underlying problems. If you are being “jilted for a video game” perhaps this is an indication of a less than healthy relationship. It’s easy to blame marital problems on video games, but I suspect that these problems start elsewhere and in most cases both parties are at fault.

In a situation you described I’d really recommend to seek marriage counseling rather than treatment for video game addiction.

Also, people who never played a MMO do not realize how annoying can it be to have to step away from a computer in the middle of a difficult instance run or a raid. Yes it is just a game, but on the other hand you are playing with other people who rely on you to be there in order to accomplish the mission. If you have to step away your fellow players get annoyed, and you end up looking like an ass for leaving them hanging. This is why people get angry when they get interrupted. I wouldn’t rudely interrupt your phone call in the middle of an interesting conversation or a story. I wouldn’t interrupt your IM conversation or a chat. But interrupting a game is fine apparently.

The whole video game addiction is FUD and quackery IMHO.

With the holidays just around the corner, many people are relishing the thought of relaxing at home, munching all manner of fatty sweets and spending extra time with their … computer games.

Instead of slurping hot cocoa with loved ones, the gamers will be off by themselves in darkened rooms, slaying monsters, conquering new worlds and otherwise stroking their heroic alter egos.

That behavior bothers a lot of people. It’s not fun being jilted for a computer game, especially during a season that’s supposed to be about human love, harmony and all those other warm and fuzzy notions.

And while hard-core gamers insist their favorite activity is a harmless pastime, their loved ones sometimes suspect that their hobby has turned into something a little more compulsive, which raises the question: Is there such a thing as gaming addiction or is the very concept a crock of excrement?

It depends on whom you ask. At one extreme, there are gamers who threaten to “get medieval” if someone so much as suggests they step away from their computer for a butt break. At the other extreme, there are the neglected spouses, former gamers and a bevy of therapists dedicated to treating game junkies.
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macanze
Drug Rehabilitation Programs

It’s been awhile, but I just came across this:

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/technology/4183340.stm

@Zack – thanks for sharing. I think you’ve actually touched on something important here. For some people their favorite MMO is pretty much the only social outlet where they don’t feel like a dork or an outcast. For example, a kid may be unpopular or even bullied at school, but when he is playing WoW he is a well respected, or even feared guild leader.

I mean, why would anyone be surprised that anyone in that situation plays the game obsessively. So it’s not the game, and it’s not always some psychological issue. Sometimes it can be the environment that drives people to play more than you’d think is appropriate.

@Alphast – yeah, but I think the only people who actually believed int the crap about RPG being addictive, and making you lose touch with reality were people like Jack Chick or the people who made Mazes and Monsters movie (btw, if you want to see the lowest point of Tom Hank’s career, this is the movie to see lol). I don’t think anyone in the hobby ever threated these things seriously.

Video game addiction on the other hand seems to be considered plausible even in the gamer circles. Just the other day I saw some vlog where they interviewed bunch of people at Blizcon about gaming addiction and not a single person in the clip rolled their eyes and said it’s BS.

Most people were like “huh huh, you are asking the wrong person” or “well, I don’t personally know anyone who was addicted to the game but if I saw my friend or guild-mate playing way to much I’d probably say something.” So people are actually buying into it, and believe that they could actually one day completely lose control.

It is the same old fake shrink crap that has been trashed out at role playing game before (I mean real paper rpg’s, not the lame computer versions). It is just to make parents feel better about the fact that they are unable to help their kids grow up.